I am a firm believer in the power of self-awareness. The problem with people abusing their power is that it’s usually the person with the power who feels the most abused. I try to practice self-awareness every day. I don’t say this to get attention. I say this to protect myself and to give myself an edge on the person who is the instigator of the verbal abuse.
I’ve had many people say to me, “Well, you should have seen that girl in the club last night, she was screaming her head off!!!” I know this is the last thing you want to hear.
I’ve had many people say to me, Well, you should have seen that girl in the club last night, she was screaming her head off I know this is the last thing you want to hear.
I have to say, I have never seen anyone get verbally abused the way that I have seen this girl get verbally abused. At least not in a club. But I do see people getting verbally assaulted in all kinds of places. I have seen people get verbally abused in schools, on the street, in grocery stores, in airports, in movies, in churches, in the mall, in shopping malls, on the Internet, etc.
I’ve seen it in the gym, in the mall, on the street, in the grocery store, in the movie theater, in the airport, on the internet, etc. There’s even a video that shows the way women and men respond in a variety of contexts. When all of the men and the women are fighting and yelling, it’s like a video collage of a bunch of angry people.
The only way to stop verbal abuse is to stop all of the yelling. Its not just about the yelling. Its about the un-hating of the people who are saying nasty things. You need to stop being a loudmouth so other people can find you. Then, you can stop being a loudmouth and get mad at the person who said that nasty thing.
The problem is that verbal abuse can be very manipulative. It can be used to manipulate a person’s emotions and make them feel sad, afraid, angry, or whatever. It can be used to get people to do certain things or make them feel good, but when you start to use it maliciously, you can end up harming others. So what you need to do is to stop the verbal abuse and just be a friendly person, rather than a loudmouth.
Well, you can stop it right in your own head by saying to yourself, “I will stop being a loudmouth and be a nice person to others.” You can also use it to make them feel better and say, “I will be nice to others and if I am being a loudmouth, they will think I am being a nice person.
We’ve all been on the receiving end of verbal abuse from some of our friends and co-workers in our lives, friends that are usually very nice in person. So in order to stop verbal abuse, it is best to say to yourself, I will be nice to others and I will be a friendly person. If you say to yourself, I will be a nice person and that helps.